Before you ask “how to get my girlfriend back”, you need to be completely honest with yourself and acknowledge whether she still cares for you and if you genuinely feel that your relationship has a chance.
Your girlfriend may have decided to break up with you for a number of reasons. You may have made some serious blunders or she may have felt the need to move on without you. Whatever the case may be, you must first understand that what had to happen, happened, so you should not keep blaming yourself or wallowing in self pity. This is very important since any negative thought pattern can ruin your self-esteem and thus affect any future relationship that you may have. So stop living in the past and start thinking about your future.
If your girl left you because she wanted a better person, why don’t you try to be that guy? There is always room for improvement no matter how skilled or efficient you are. For example, if your ex-girlfriend thinks that you do not care for anyone but yourself, maybe you could do some volunteer work and start helping out others. However, you must not do it only to prove her wrong, but to improve overall as a person. If you were labeled as too laid back or as someone who did not eat healthy, now is the perfect time to start looking after your body and working on changing your diet. Regular exercise will not only make you look better, you will be brooding less and feeling lighter than before. When you do bump into your ex, do not start playing the pity card or acting all jealous and spiteful. Be friendly, exchange information on your lives but do not pry. At the same time, create some mystery around your current life too. This does not mean that you give her the impression that you are painting the town red!
Women like men who have an air of intrigue around them, so be casual yet enigmatic. If she does bring up the topic of your breakup, be a man and take responsibility for your actions. If you want her back then you have to make her understand that the new ‘you’ is a much better version than the one she chose to dump. Do all those small things that she likes and chances are you will not need to ask the question “how to get my girlfriend back”, ever again!
